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Slowly, Little by Little
This past year has made me want to hide from being an adult so much. So much has happened and I’ve been lucky to have amazing friends and...
Mar 11, 20212 min read


I Spy With My Wicked Eyes…
Hello my darling fellow kinksters! Seeing as how the pandemic is probably driving us all a lot mad at the moment, I figured I would take...
Feb 2, 20216 min read


Creative Writing: The Sounds…
A post born from quarantine, inspired by the things I miss from my after dark lifestyle in the community.
Dec 19, 20202 min read


Arise from the ashes
Hello my wonderful fellow kinksters! I know it has been a while and I keep doing this. With all the stuff going on in my personal life, I...
Oct 21, 20202 min read


Creating A Safety Net – AfterCare
After a very long hiatus, I think the topic of after care fits right in.Everyone will have a different idea of what after care will look...
Mar 30, 20207 min read


It’s not all or nothing… Lessons in patience and self-forgiveness
Hello everyone! It’s Lunissa poking out from the shadows again. I’ve decided to open up and own up to a realization I had earlier this...
Mar 8, 20205 min read


Creating A Safety Net – Safe Words
Hello again! So I decided to continue the series with safe words. This is something that I feel is more well-known and having them in...
Jan 21, 20199 min read
Emerging from the shadows of 2018
Hello again everyone after quite a long while! Hopefully everyone has had a wonderful holiday season and start to 2019! I realize how...
Jan 3, 20191 min read


Creating A Safety Net – Revisiting Consent
Hello again, my lovely readers! Due to some recent consent violations that have been coming up in the local kink community as well as...
Sep 15, 20186 min read


Creating A Safety Net – Beware The Frenzy
Hello again! It’s been quite a while since I first intended to do this series but at last I’m making progress. In a way, the balance I...
Jul 11, 20186 min read
Creating A Safety Net
Hello fellow kinksters! This time around, I am preparing a small series of posts around safety. It can be so, so easy to be swept up in...
May 25, 20182 min read


SSC v. RACK
Hello my lovely fellow kinksters and curious souls! This week I am continuing on the theme of consent and personal needs, comforts, and...
Apr 12, 20185 min read
It’s been a while! Also, an anal-ogy
Hello again everyone! My, how the time has flown by! Thankfully, things should be calming down now a bit more so I should be more regular...
Mar 20, 20184 min read
Taking A Breather
Hello again! I apologize for a delay in my latest post! I’ve been trying to upload every weekend but life has gotten interesting between...
Feb 25, 20183 min read
Consent, Consent, Consent
Hello again! This week, I decided to focus on something that is simple but can feel complicated sometimes. At its core and simplest form,...
Jan 30, 20183 min read


Bottoms & Subs & Slaves, Oh My!
Welcome back! For today, I wanted to talk a bit about the s-types of D/s dynamics. So, to start off what are some of the differences?...
Jan 21, 20182 min read


Switching Things Up A Bit
The extent to which a switch is comfortable with or prefers to use the roles interchangeably can vary from day to day or even moment to...
Jan 15, 20182 min read


Hello & Welcome!
A big welcome to any and all that happen across this blog! First off, I want to add this just to be clear: this blog will cover adult...
Jan 15, 20183 min read
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