Taking A Breather

Hello again! I apologize for a delay in my latest post! I’ve been trying to upload every weekend but life has gotten interesting between some not so great events regarding consent and then getting sick! Because of this, though, I want to get back on track with some attention to self-care.

It can be so, so easy to let yourself get swept up in all the adrenaline and joy and pleasure as you go along your journey whether you are new or are decades in! There could be the rush of finding a new play partner or discovering a new kink or expanding your limits or so much more that can happen at any time and can be something manageable in excitement or all the way to “oh my gosh all the things! I need this now!!”. However, it’s always important to remain aware of your limits and also realize that sometimes those limits can be a bit different such as needing more or less intensity due to being emotionally charged as well as feeling that adrenaline high can make you start to ignore your body’s cues to slow down or stop (especially if you enter sub space) while stress and anxiety can make lower your pain tolerance. Safety is important both in the physical and mental sense!

There could also be some intense times in your relationships with others, your kinks, or even yourself both within and outside of the kink world. It’s okay if you need a break from kink. It’s okay if you need to let your play partner that you need something different or more after care or just some time to enjoy the bond in a more calm manner. No matter what it is, it is always important to stay in tune with what you need mentally, emotionally, and physically so that you can keep things safe and sane for yourself.

A sexual journey is lifelong and the journey into kink will be full of opportunities and surprises; however, that path is yours to take and there is never any need to rush into especially if it means you will get hurt in some way. After all, it’s not fun having to take a break to tend to an injury or even a mental wound. That is not to say that it won’t happen. It’s a messy, exhilarating, freeing, relieving experience and accidents happen, life happens but prioritizing your needs will ensure you are in the right mind to play safe and that you’re not straining your body into a longer term or permanent injury and that you are able to give your best self to your play partner! For Dominants, you will be in the right state of mind to dominate and create a pleasurable scene without breaking your dear submissive. For submissives, you will be taking care of His or Her body to do with as They will. For kinksters of all kinds, you will be ready for whatever adventure you want to have and whatever fun your play partners want to throw at you next! So, go out and have fun! Explore! Experiment! Grow! But also remember to take care of yourself so you can enjoy this beautiful journey into the tantalizing darkness of kink so that you can give it your all during those moments and be able to continue enjoying it as much and as often as you like! This is part of the Safe and Sane of the Consensual games we play.

Have fun and until next time,

Miss Lunissa

#Frenzy #SelfCare